Follow up: To love or not

After looking at the other blog posts I have realized that love does have a bad side and it is very different from person to person some people want to fall in love others don't. Some want to but not yet, others want to as soon as possible and then theres people like me, I would like to but Im in no rush, whenever it happens it happens because I feel like if you rush or wait to long then that you will miss the chance to fall in love with the right person. I think that that's why divorce happens because you tried to force yourself to do something instead of going with the flow and waiting for that right moment or waiting for the right time to meet the person that you really are looking for that matches all the things that you want in a person. You tried too hard to find that person that you thought was the right person instead of finding the perfect person for you. Falling in love at a young age can be difficult because you think that you know them but over time everyone changes and that someone you thought was perfect isn't so perfect anymore. But on the other side of things a couple can date in high school  and then later on get married, have kids, and spend their entire life together happily until they're both gone. This often appears in movies but it can occur in some instances. As I was reading over the blogs I came across many different, very good ideas showing different perspectives, but one stood out in my head as a very good point. On Cam Nearys blog it says that someone in most movies there is a protagonist that is without love and are grumpy all the time and then at the end they find love and completely change and I thought of The Christmas Carol as a perfect example of Scrooge Living a life full of sorrow, dad after day grumpy because he hates christmas, but in the end he is basically starting a new life rejuvenated by the love he has for christmas. In this case it is not necessarily love for a person but for a view. This shows that for some people love represents happiness and how much of it love can bring.

To love or not to love

I think that it is important to fall in love. Mostly everyone in their life will fall in love at some point. And at that point i think that no matter what even if they break up, divorce, or whatever, that they will still always love each other because at one point they found a reason too and that reason will always be there. By not falling in love with someone, you aren't allowing yourself to fully experience life. Love is a part of the cycle of life, you grow up with your families love, then you marry someone and love them, making the decision to have kids and love them. Without falling in love with someone than you miss the chance to share happiness with them and build a family. Of course this is not what all people want, but for the majority of people it is. It can be a problem to fall in love early because you don't know if you actually love them or not, or if you just think you love them. But once you actually fall in love and marry someone you will be able to tell that you actually fell in love.